Who hasn't been there? You have a guy friend or a girl friend that you are close to, and you keep asking yourself "does he or does she have a crush on me?"

I'm writing this article to help you erase doubts and your curiosity. This free advice has saved money for thousands of people because many people turn to professionals for help to understand this.

1. Flirtation is a key sign that somebody likes you more than a friend. If you have a friend the same sex as you, you'll know that the activities of flirtation are much different than what you would do with just a regular friend or best friend. Normal friends don't tickle each other, throw pen caps on, wrestle, or feed each other things... Activities of flirtation often include physical contact of some sort. If you are asking yourself "does he or she have a crush on me", you'll know by flirtation. Flirtation is a key indicator that a person likes you beyond just friendship. So if they are flirting, this is a key first sign that you know they like you more than a friend.

2. Never rejecting you, a phone call, or event with you. This person will want to spend all the time they possibly can with you. Sure very important things can make exceptions to this rule, but in general they wish to spend hour upon hour with you. This time spent with you is another indicator that they really like you beyond friendship. This is a clear answer to the question - does he or she have a crush on me. Often this leads to dating.

3. High interest put on your personal life, beliefs, family, & deep conversations. This person is trying to get to know you much deeper than just a normal friend may. Deep discussions on topics such as religion, children, life, money or saving money, or philosophy are heavy indicators of high interest in personal life. Consider that these things or topics wouldn't be discussed commonly with normal friends. Discussion about your family and/or an interest in your family as well would he be included in the "deep discussion" category. Always put yourself into first person when you are curious. Does he or she have a crush on me? Think about it, if they are having deep involved conversations, why would they unless they had a crush on you?

4. Willingness to be there through times of sadness or trouble. To take time for you, and go the extra step to make you feel better. Although normal friends can do this, this will be accompanied with the person going the extra steps beyond what a friend would. They will be happy to help you and be there with open ears and arms at all times through your problems. Ask yourself directly, does he or she have a crush on me since they are willing to be there in good times and bad times? It's an easy answer.

5. If all else fails, just ask them - "Do you have a crush on me?" Tell them its a normal thing for close friends of the opposite sex for something to exist beyond friendship. Just let them know that you are curious and just want to be honest with them. Be ready to answer the question back! Good Luck!